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Okoboji Online | Guestbook | Archive | August 2005

Archive August 2005

IA native	San Jose, Ca
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 12:46 AM Wish I were there !! Have a wonderful Aug. and be safe everyone !!

DebbieQ	Omaha
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 6:50 AM 13 more days and i will be there relaxing soaking up the sun!!!!! Cant wait!!!!!

Jim Frost

jim@arnoldspark.com

Monday, August 1, 2005 at 7:45 AM
You are invited to attend the next meeting of the board of directors of the Iowa Great Lakes Maritime Museum, governing body of Arnolds Park Amusement Park. It will be held in the Hedberg Theater of the Iowa Welcome Center at Highway 71 and Lake Street in Arnolds Park at 10 a.m. Friday, Aug. 5, 2005. There will be a short business meeting and then the floor will be open for public questions and comments, particularly regarding the IGLMM's fund raising effort, Sustain Our Park.

Wondering	boji
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 9:11 AM I am in shock about what happened to Lyle! Does anyone know the details of the accident and of his funeral??

Okobojigirl	@aol.com
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 9:45 AM I heard Lyle was hit by a drunk driver in Arkansas .

Somebody	.....
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 9:48 AM Lyle was killed in a accident in Lake of the Ozarks, he was hit by a drunk driver.... He will be missed dearly, and will be remembered by all.

Places to Eat	NA
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 10:16 AM I will be coming up to the lake on Monday the 8th. and will have 7 kids with us. I wanted to get some recommendations on where to eat that won't break the bank. Are there any particular days or specials that I should consider? Thanks in advance for your input.

to: Places to eat	********
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 10:35 AM Tweeters, has really great food, and its not bad on prices. Treasure Village, if you're there for mini golf, or theater, they have awesome hot dogs and taverns! Taco Johns for discount tickets I believe for Arnold's Park.

Amy Jorgensen	trecmv@telluridecolorado.net
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 10:37 AM We are headed to Okoboji on August 17th from Telluride, Colorado. We are so excited to come home and visit Craig, Sandi, Tug and Max. See you soon, Mom and Dad!!! Love, Eric and Amy P.S. Save 2 nutty bars for us!!!

Blonde	OK
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 11:32 AM O'Farrell Sisters is another reasonably priced restaurant with good food and caters to kids with the "Kids Cakes" Chicken strip basket and hot dogs. Yummy stuff

Friend	none
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 2:16 PM RIP Bro !

A Friend

Monday, August 1, 2005 at 3:16 PM
Lyle Donkersloot was a wonderful kind hearted and gracious man. Those who got to know the "real" Lyle were the lucky ones. Those of you who did not, that's too bad, because you missed out on one heck of an experience. Lyle truly was a man who could put a smile on any girl's face and who could forget that voice. Love it !! To Nick and Delia and the rest of the family, may God try to ease your pain at this time of sorrow. Please every one show respect to this family in their time of grieving. Thank you. R.I.P. Lyle..

justmarried	delaware
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 4:33 PM I know someone that lives in San Jose that is from okoboji. Not sure if you are the same person. I am also an Iowa native, currently living on the east coast.

obi nna	obi@yahoo.com
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 4:35 PM i love jesus

native	phoenix
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 4:47 PM 5 more days of hot-as-heck arizona. Can't wait to swim in the soft and refreshing water of Okoboji.

Derra	dzrmc@aol.com
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 4:57 PM Discount tickets for Arnolds Park?? Haven't heard about that... Coming on the 4th, with 6 kids b/t our families... that would be great, if such a thing exists. Taco John's? Anyone else know of this?

a friend	zxxxxxxxxx
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 8:28 PM Okoboji without Lyle !!! It will never be the same. RIP dear Lyle and Thank You for all you did for us. Love You

backfromboji	bojiboy
Monday, August 1, 2005 at 10:52 PM jus got back from boji man that place is still awsome

Sophie

Lyle

Monday, August 1, 2005 at 11:01 PM
Yes, Lyle was killed by a drunk driver. And Lyle, hasn't drank for years...give the family and REAL close freinds their space. Don't show up at the funeral as a "want-a-be". The funeral will be at Good News Community Church in Okoboji this Saturday. He has done a lot for the community and will be very missed. I don't know yet, but I hope R.D. is doing the service.

Jules	a local
Tuesday, August 2, 2005 at 2:13 AM Sending my best wishes to The Donkersloot Family at the untimely loss of Lyle. He was an awesome man who always had plenty of words of advice and was a great person. Rest in Peace and Keep Ridin in the Sky.

An old friend

xxxxx

Tuesday, August 2, 2005 at 4:41 PM
I have known Lyle for over 30 years. He was a wonderful and kind hearted man. Bigger than life! In a word he was charismatic. He was a man that made people talk about him, and want to be with him. He made people smile and usually had a smile himself. My last words to Lyle were "God bless you!" His last gift to me was the vision of him popping the front wheel of his Chopper off the ground. He gave a grand smile and wave good bye as he reached 60 mph in a half a block. The roar of the Harley and the smile and wave.. what a wonderful picture of a bigger than life man. See you on the other side old friend..

Chad & Brenda	wildfowlshooter@yahoo.com
Tuesday, August 2, 2005 at 9:28 PM Chad has always beeb a 'bojoi boy' I came from northern MN, Everyone here is family (except when the party starts, then we are all MATES!!) LOVE THIS AREA!!!

We Love Lyle!

____

Tuesday, August 2, 2005 at 10:44 PM
I was also schocked to hear about Lyle. Things like that aren't supposed to happen to such neat people! I didn't know Lyle well, just as a customer of Indian Motorcycles, and from seeing him around town, but I always enjoyed him. He was a wonderful guy, and always had a big, beautiful smile on his face. My favorite memory of Lyle is the Sunday this Spring that he played the piano during the church service at Calvary Methodist. R.D. overheard him telling someone that he could play the piano, and asked him to do it, and being the good sport that he was, he obliged. It was awesome! I will miss driving by Indian Motorcycles and seeing him outside, and seeing him around town on his bike. My thoughts and prayers are with his friends and family. I cannot imagine what they must be feeling. We love you Lyle - rest in peace! If there is a time when you are thinking of driving somewhere after drinking alcohol, think of this senseless accident and DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE!

Post13	@hotmail.com
Wednesday, August 3, 2005 at 10:06 AM Nick, My thoughts and prayers are with your family......the lakes will never be the same. God Bless!

PLEASE SOPHIE	XXX
Wednesday, August 3, 2005 at 4:17 PM Sounds like your the wanna be!!!!!! I will be at the funeral and no im not a wanna be i want to pay my respects to Nick who always went out of his way to talk to me!!

mac

mac@aol.com

Wednesday, August 3, 2005 at 6:32 PM
Who ever is at Lyle's funeral is because they knew Lyle in some form or fashion. He crossed paths with so many people whether you are a wanna be or someone who was part of Lyle's life. Who gives someone the right to tell who can and cannot go to a funeral!!! Lyle always had a hug for me and a great big smile! Everytime I visited the shop he told me to "pick ya out something" Bless his family and friends. Lyle, God Bless You.

X	X
Wednesday, August 3, 2005 at 10:32 PM HAVING KNOWN LYLE AND NICK FOR 20 YEARS, AND SEEING THEM PAY THEIR RESPECTS AT FUNERALS AND VISITATIONS OF ANY ONE THEY KNEW, LYLE WOULD HAVE GOTTEN OFF THE TRACTOR, EVEN DURING CORNPLANTNGS OR HARVEST TO PAY RESPECTS TO SOMEONE WHO HAD TOUCHED HIS LIFE. GODBLESS AND REST IN PEACE OLD FRIEND.

Lyle's father	eddo@tcaexpress.net
Thursday, August 4, 2005 at 2:33 PM Lyles DAD. I am not quite sure how I could raise a son that has affected so many people. Seems like so many people say that they "LOVE" Lyle. Thanks to all of you that sent cards and comments. I am proud to be his father and will miss him forever. Ed "EDDO" Donkersloot

Lyle's father	eddo@tcaexpress.net
Thursday, August 4, 2005 at 2:33 PM Lyles DAD. I am not quite sure how I could raise a son that has affected so many people. Seems like so many people say that they "LOVE" Lyle. Thanks to all of you that sent cards and comments. I am proud to be his father and will miss him forever. Ed "EDDO" Donkersloot

You should be	proud!
Thursday, August 4, 2005 at 3:55 PM My condolences to you, Father of Lyle, and yes, you should be very proud to have a son that made so many people smile! You did something right! It made my heart smile to drive by Indian Motorcycles this week, and see all the people sitting out there on lawn chairs, no doubt sharing great memories of Lyle. Lyle was one of a kind!

Dustin	kottagekids@frontiernet.net
Thursday, August 4, 2005 at 5:38 PM He called on the Thursday before they rode out to the Ozarks, just to check and let me know he still loved me. At the end of the conversation He said one day we will ride again. You were right Lyle that day will come when I ride wheel to wheel with you, not a doubt in my mind. Always and forever.

Friend

Thursday, August 4, 2005 at 5:49 PM
I too knew Lyle, I have for as long as I can remember. He was a wonderful man who would do anything for anybody.... he might of looked tough and intimidating, but he was just a big teddy bear. From the times that we watched him ride his bikes into his house (up a ramp), lol yes I said into his house, going to his shop to see him and seeing his wonderful smile, hearing his awesome voice on the radio, and seeing him and his group driving up the hill to his house after a trip. He will be missed forever, and remembered always in the hearts of those who knew him. I am truly glad I got a chance to get to know him and can honestly say he was one of the most genuinely nice and greatest people I have met in a long time.

Dawn

ddsch@milfordcable.net

Thursday, August 4, 2005 at 9:00 PM
Tis' hard to say goodbye to such a friend many of us had in Lyle. I know in my heart that Dash was right there for Lyle when he passed and little Gavin! They are all at peace. Ride on "Dash and Lyle" won't be a day that I don't think of either of you fondly. If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again.

Stop all

the gossipping!!!

Thursday, August 4, 2005 at 11:19 PM
Good god, let the family mourn in peace and please quit all the stupid gossipping, this is not a "high School" matter, a life was lost. If you don't know the real story don't open your mouth. All this I heard from so and so who heard from this person who heard from this person stuff has got to stop. All this is going to do is piss people off, and that is the last thing you want right now.

Lisa	Let's Go Boating!
Friday, August 5, 2005 at 8:27 AM One more day Steph!!!!

Lyle	@@@@@@@@@@@
Friday, August 5, 2005 at 9:50 PM Wow, so many bikers in town, bet the funeral is going to be huge.

D & S	sjacob44@cableone.net
Friday, August 5, 2005 at 10:23 PM We feel so blessed to have known Lyle. He was the real deal. What a great man, so true to what he believed in and to those that he loved. He always had that great smile. It will be so missed by many. To Nick, his girls and family, Through God, family and friends we pray it may help ease your pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Not again	condono@okono
Saturday, August 6, 2005 at 7:46 PM Got a letter today in the mail. Sounds like they are going to replace the rooms at The INN with hotel condiminiums.

cc	cc
Saturday, August 6, 2005 at 8:37 PM No. The inn is going to be the inn still. Who knows maybe they are putting up condos somewhere. The deal is though, is that they are building an indoor water park for the resort. Thats what I got from one of the maintanance guys.

Notagain	condono@okono
Saturday, August 6, 2005 at 9:00 PM The condos will replace the 700 & 800 section rooms. I have the plans for it on paper.

Rae

bobscandy@sbcglobal.net

Sunday, August 7, 2005 at 3:09 AM
I guess Lyle touched the hearts of people everywhere! I was blessed to have met here in St. Louis while attending one of his "Brothers" funerals. Even during a painful time for him, he managed to have that wonderful smile on his face and words of comfort for everyone else. My heart goes out to his family this was such a terrible way to loose such a wonderful person. Here on Earth we have suffered such a loss,while in Harley Heaven they have recieved yet another Biker Angel!

Mary	countingdowntocampingtime
Sunday, August 7, 2005 at 9:37 AM Can anyone tell me how fast the campgrounds fill up around Labor Day weeknd?I am wanting to go camping over Labor Day weeknd.I was thinking about coming up to the lake on Tuesday afrernoon.I think they might be filled up by then.If anyone could tell me how fast the camoground fills up that would be great.Thank you.

TERESA	BELANGRIK@WORLDNET.ATT.NET
Sunday, August 7, 2005 at 10:22 AM WE LOVE YOU LYLE, RIP. THE SOUTH AFRICAN FAMILY.

IA native	San Jose, Ca
Sunday, August 7, 2005 at 10:49 AM To just married on the east coast. I was raised in Spencer and Milford. Mom still lives in Milford. I've lived in SJ for 25 yrs and I love both places !! As i get older I try to visit the lakes more often !! The kids are grown and more time to play ! PS: I live in South San Jose in the Almaden area, does that sound familar ?

Mike Shorey

justmike@mchsi.com

Sunday, August 7, 2005 at 3:22 PM
To the Donkersloot Family. I was honored to not only do business with Lyle and Nick. But, to have them as friends. Lyle was a one of a kind man with a personality all his own. He ALWAYS took time to talk to me. He will be missed and remembered forever. I do hope that Choppercentral stays open as a a tribute to Lyle and Nicks hard work... We'll never forget. Heaven has an other Loyal son

MN girl	mcderycke@iw.net
Sunday, August 7, 2005 at 9:18 PM We will be in Okoboji area Aug 13-16 (or so). Is Boji Bay closed ? That was great fun last year ! Besides Arnold's Park what else is there to do with kids (8 & 9 yr olds)?? Ranch Park no longer has bumper boats or go-carts ! We have no boat so need suggestions (preferably not too expensive). Thanks !

MUGU MAN	MUMU@YAHOO.CA
Sunday, August 7, 2005 at 9:47 PM NICE AND GOD BLESS I HAS BEEN HERE OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUGU

Builder	Builder@builder.com
Monday, August 8, 2005 at 7:43 AM I would like to see a web page where every one who has a Lyle story could tell it. I think I have a Lyle story for every time I hung out with him. God Bless you Lyle. God Bless the Donkersloot family.

Steve	bluedoorrv@hotmail.com
Monday, August 8, 2005 at 7:48 AM I knew "Lyle For A While" and he always had "Style". R.I.P. brother.

vandenberg	Sioux Falls
Monday, August 8, 2005 at 8:11 AM Condolences to the Lyle Donkersloot family from the VandenBerg brothers Merle, Darwin and Steve of Sioux Falls, SD.

Tammy	tammylpeters@yahoo.com
Monday, August 8, 2005 at 9:51 AM Lyle - It was awesome to see that so many lives had been touched in such a deep way but one man. Everyone felt special to him and I am thankful I had the opportunity to know such a great person.

Jim Blount	logan@scbn.net
Monday, August 8, 2005 at 9:55 AM I participated in RAGBRAI last month and failed to get my "MBA" while in Milford. Is it possible to do the online?

Happiness is....	......
Monday, August 8, 2005 at 2:27 PM Happiness is getting to the Koffee Kup Kafe while they still have cinnamon rolls left! Awesome this morning!

Jim Donkersloot

jadlaw@aol.com

Monday, August 8, 2005 at 7:35 PM
As a cousin, I knew Lyle all of my life. One of the most memorable times was when we went fishing all night in Silver Lake, Iowa. (It really wasn't much of a fishing trip since we were fishing for bullheads.) More recently, I saw Lyle in the airport when we went to meet Lyle's sister who was coming home for a Grandmother's funeral. He had a wonderful smile, and the joy he brought to so many people is inspiring. Thank you to all who have shared memories

Patty	smoot692002@yahoo.com
Tuesday, August 9, 2005 at 4:24 AM Lyle, I will always salute you on Nov. 12th. (our birthday)

OZ HAMC	WORLD
Tuesday, August 9, 2005 at 8:45 AM Lyle was a man of honor and respect and will be missed by all that knew him. R.I.P. Lyle ..... OZ HELLS ANGELS MOTORCYCLE CLUB ...NOMADS ILLINOIS

From Ogden	goodeeal@netins.net
Tuesday, August 9, 2005 at 9:02 AM Mark, I know that you check this website...sorry I have been so deliquent in my card to you but I need to find the right card and have time to write to you. We are thinking of you...you and all of your family have been in our thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine the grief you must be feeling. Hang in there..God is with you.

TOM & MARY G	gotchta@msn.com
Tuesday, August 9, 2005 at 10:16 PM WE ONLY KNEW LYLE FOR A VERY SHORT TIME, BUT HE IMPACTED OUR LIVES TERMENDOULY. "THANK YOU", LYLE, FOR THE PERSON YOU WERE AND WHAT YOU HAVE HELPED US TO BECOME. WE SHALL THINK OF YOU OFTEN. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU, LYLE!

Husker Mike	mike@huskers.com
Wednesday, August 10, 2005 at 12:09 PM Yes, Boji Bay is closed. However, KUOO is reporting today that it has been sold. It sounds like some of the attractions, such as the mini golf and Lazy River, will remain. But a RV park and strip mall will use some of the property. Construction will start this fall.

Lyle

ketjohnson@aol.com

Wednesday, August 10, 2005 at 1:11 PM
To the Family of Lyle, I was shocked to hear the news and very saddened! I remember coming to Okoboji years ago and going riding with Lyle, Dash and Merle. I'm sure Rudy and Trish are at the gates to take you home, Lyle. I will truely miss the friendship, the smile, the little jokes that made knowing you very special. Life is never the same after someone near has been taken from us. God Bless your family. A friend

Lisa (Wichita, Ks)	drdamage@cox.net
Wednesday, August 10, 2005 at 9:04 PM My deepest sympathy to The Donkersloots, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Lyle was a one of a kind with a smile that could light up any room he walked into. Few people touch so many lives by simply being who they are and I am grateful for having known him. He will be missed..

Local Resident	Now
Thursday, August 11, 2005 at 1:05 AM I heard today that Miller's Bay was sold and the new owners take over on October 1. They're planning on putting A LOT of money into the place.

To My Weakness

DeWolfGirl@aol.com

Thursday, August 11, 2005 at 9:42 AM
I will miss you dear friend. It never failed that no matter what time zone I was in you were always there in your zone to comfort, inspire, and to love. When I heard the news I felt my heart break with the sound of cracking thunder and then the world came to a stop and turned mute. Memories of long walks, sunset dips, laying in the yard looking at stars, slow dancing, and riding the combine talking of memories and dreams flood my mind. I always believed you would live forever, I always believed you would be there, I always believed in you to grow old. The only solice I find is when I think of your leaving us while doing something you loved and knowing your friends who left before you will be there to welcome you with open arms into the Kingdom of Heaven. A true friend, loyal to a fault. My heart goes out to your babies, you were always such a proud daddy. Lyle, you will always be remembered...my hero.

me!!	wonder_busta@yahoo.com
Thursday, August 11, 2005 at 12:21 PM does anybody know where that website is that shows pictures of the lakes/nightlife? Its like a calendar of pics. You can click on a day and it will go to that day where they took the pics. Help!!

Brian	okoboji96@hotmail.com
Thursday, August 11, 2005 at 12:58 PM The site you're looking for is okobojipics.com, but it's been gone since this spring.

ewunder	xxx
Thursday, August 11, 2005 at 1:19 PM My heart goes out to the Donkersloot family. May many wonderful memories help to ease your sorrows. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.

Lyle's Sister

lcline@alpinecom.net

Thursday, August 11, 2005 at 8:39 PM
The family of Lyle Edward Donkersloot would like to thank all those who showed their love and support through this difficult time of grieving over Lyle's untimely passing. We are truly grateful by your gestures of love and compassion...the many stories, to help us begin this healing process. God takes the good ones way too soon. I would like to have hugged each and every one of you that participated in Lyle's services Friday and Saturday but your numbers were overwhelming. So now, from the bottom of my heart and with open arms, I embrace all those that I may have missed and all those that held us in their thoughts and prayers.

what happened	last night
Friday, August 12, 2005 at 9:40 AM Heard there was a terrible boating accident around 2:00 as this morning? Anyone have any info. on this? Names, etc??

resident

Concerned

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 10:37 AM
The accident on the lake last night is one of many more, if somthing isn't done. The lake law enforcement is not enforcing the law's of boating at Okoboji. There are too many boats on the lake and no RULES. ( boats over capacity, high power boats speeding when a lot of boats are on the lake, boats speeding at night after they have been drinking at one of the bars on the lake, people drinking and driving.) There are too many boats on the lake at night and the LAKE LAW should be that any boat up on a plane will be ticketed.( If there drunk and they hit someone the chances of killing someone is a lot less. And the law states if you test over .08 and driving you are intoxicated and you should be ticketed no different then driving a car.( that law is not enforced at Okoboji!!!!)The only people to blame is our law enforcement on the lake and if something isn't done there is going to be a lot more fatalities.

Summer Local

Responsibility

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 11:23 AM
"The only people to blame is our law enforcement." That is an outrageous statement. What about people taking responsibility for their actions? The people to blame are the people that drive their boats when they are hammered. I don't like DNR as much as the next guy, but there is no current law against driving a boat "on plane" after the sun goes down. In fact, it is legal to have a skier behind your boat 30 min. after the official sunset. So how do you blame law enforcement? I realize that 4th Amendment standards are a little lower with the DNR than with street police, but it would arguably be a 4th amendment violation for DNR to stop a boat simply because it was going fast. Change the law before you blame DNR.

The few ruin it for the responsible

Responsible one

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 11:30 AM
The responsible people always get shafted because the irresponsible people screw things up. Do i drink while i am boating? Yes, i have a few glasses of wine while boating around the lake. i would hate for that enjoyment to be taken away because of idots who get hammered and run into things with their boat. In short, i don't know how to solve this problem, but i am sure it is NOT to totally restrict drinks from boats. That would anger me as someone who lives for Friday afternoon boat rides with the family and a bottle of wine.

also a local

also have a few drinks on the boat

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 11:42 AM
OK, Everyone is assuming that the driver of the other boat was intoxicated. It's a greater possibility that they were, then not (considering the time of the accident) but, don't jump to assuming that, before you know for sure. Maybe that person was just scared to death. I agree, it was totally wrong to leave the scene and I hope that they are caught. How could you sleep at night knowing you killed someone. I also enjoy having a few drinks on the boat. I would hate it if we couldn't. We also always take the boat if we are going out to dinner or drinks at night because, I feel it's safer. We will still continue to take the boat.

Dan Connolly

dconnolly@iowarealtycommercial.com

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 12:57 PM
It appears a message was left on this page a few days ago indicating that Miller's Bay Restaurant has been sold and the new owner is taking possession October 1, 2005. While it is true the restaurant and lounge are for sale, it has not been sold. To clarify the situation, the Simpsons are asking $595,000 for the 11,020 square foot building that includes the restaurant/lounge, two apartments with vaulted ceilings and a 2,120 square foot unfinished one and one-half story addition with full basement. There is also a detached two-car garage. The Simpsons also have an adjoining quarter acre lot, more or less, with access to the canal that is for sale for $100,000. My name is Dan Connolly. I am the listing agent for the Simpsons. Dan Connolly 515-453-5417

all the

innocents

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 1:56 PM
Amazing how many people who only have a few? drinks who are not able to drive so instead they take their boat home after the bars close. It was only a matter of time until this sort of accident happened. I have seen one very large boat in particular, that goes at least 80mph, tearing wide open across East Lake in the middle of the night with a very drunk operator. We need more police on the lake.

DJS	private
Friday, August 12, 2005 at 2:12 PM Sorry to the folks whom enjoy a drink while DRIVING a boat, but I think the same laws should apply to boats as other vehicles. NO DRINKING AND DRIVING!! Public intox should also apply, I know it takes away alot of "fun" for some, but will protect innocent ppl, out to enjoy the lake not their buzz

Boating accident.

How awful!

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 3:03 PM
I cannot believe that someone could drive off from an accident no matter how minor or major that it was. How selfish of someone to do that just to protect themselves. It does make you think that they probably had something to hide, which is no excuse. I hope they find whoever did it fast, or better yet, the person would do the right thing, and come forth and take responsibilty for their own stupidity.

Michelle

michellebooge@cox.net

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 3:24 PM
I have known Lyle for over 20 years. He was my friend, my neighbor at the lakes and one of the best people that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I was lucky enough to spend some time with Lyle on my annual trip back to the lakes this summer and have a ton of great pictures of him which I will be sending to Nick to share with friends. My love, thoughts and prayers go out to all of Lyle's family and friends. No one could tell a story like Lyle could; no one could make me laugh like Lyle did; and no one's smile will ever light up a room like Lyle's. Rest easy my friend.

New to the Area

tragedy

Friday, August 12, 2005 at 3:28 PM
Let's face it people, the DNR can't catch every idiot out driving stupid on a boat no more than the law enforcement on land can. I wish they could, but they just physically can't. We are all assuming the run away driver was intoxicated. So where did they get intoxicated at?? Does that establishment have any responsibility here? The bars on the lake make plenty of $$ every season, but are they letting the $$ get in the way of saying No to a customer that has had too much to drink?

ginny

Saturday, August 13, 2005 at 4:13 AM
LYLE WITH THE MILE WIDE SMILE. I HAD JUST TALKED TO YOU THAT MORNING AND AM GLAD FOR THAT. I HOPE THERE ARE PLENTY OF RED CADDY'S FOR YOUR LIKING. GOING TO THE EVENTS AND NOT HEARING YOUR VOICE SEEMS SURREAL. SHOCKING ACTUALLY. BUT IN OUR HEARTS, WE HEAR YOU LOUD AND CLEAR. TO BAD THEY DIDN'T GET A CLOSE UP OF YOUR BIKE AND ELECTRIC SMILE IN THE VIDEO BIG STAR BY KENNY CHESNEY. I REMEMBER YOU SAYING THAT WHEN EVER YOU WENT TO ANY LEGION, VFW BAR ETC , YOU SIGNED THE GUEST BOOK. AND THAT YOU WERE DAMN PROUD OF YOUR COUNTRY. THANK YOU LYLE. YOU MADE A DIFFERENCE. PEACE TO YOUR FAMILY

curious	ggdmnbun@ncn.net
Saturday, August 13, 2005 at 12:24 PM What happened on the lakes this week? Don't people know it's stupid to drink and drive, let alone drive a boat in the dark?

Feeling disbelief

Saturday, August 13, 2005 at 2:41 PM
I just can't believe that the person who caused the accident can live around here, because there's too much to hide. Someone knows something. Please don't protect the person who did this. Come forth because of your conscience, not because there's a reward. My first thought was that the boat had to have had damage to the hull, and that maybe the reason they haven't found it, is because it sank. If the driver was drunk, he would have probably drowned. Time will tell...a boat just doesn't disappear.

Lakes Local

Saturday, August 13, 2005 at 6:29 PM
This boating accident and the prior accidents on our area's lakes have been very devastating and difficult for us all as a community. It makes all individual's feel unsafe on the water, especially after sunset. These speed boats that open it wide open across the lake scare the absolute hell out of me. I don't think people realize the responsibility that goes a long with operating a water craft some times. However, every one needs to step back and allow the investigation to go on and hopefully these immoral boat operators will be caught. It doesn't make it any easier when every body jumps to conclusions and starts rumors. Facts are what will bring a solution to this accident. So any one who knows what truly happened you should come forward and clear your conscience. There are many people hurting right now from this accident and there is some one out there who can bring justice for this family. Please people do the right thing !!

Genevieve

MontanaGen@aol.com

Saturday, August 13, 2005 at 7:10 PM
I just got back from Sturgis. It was hard to attend this year knowing that I wasn't going to bump into Lyle, or even have a chance to call him to visit him at the Super 8 where he always stayed. (I've known Lyle for 10 years.) A friend of mine was at the Broken Spoke on Tuesday night and she said the Fryed Brothers were playing and asked the audience if anyone knew Lyle Donkersloot. The crowd roared that they did. Then the Fryed Brothers sang a ballad in honor of Lyle. My friend said there wasn't a dry eye in the house including the guys. I'm bummed I missed that tribute to Lyle that evening, but then again, I've shed so many tears for him already. I want all who read this to know that Lyle was missed in Sturgis this year, big time, by many, many people. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and all his friends, like me, who's lives he touched in such a special way.

Rally	Together!
Sunday, August 14, 2005 at 1:37 PM Wow, $7500 to $25,000 in one afternoon! That is one of the many reasons I am proud to live in this area! It is nice to live in a community that can rally together when it is needed!

MARY	mmayer43@hotmail.com
Sunday, August 14, 2005 at 8:42 PM ANYONE KNOW WHEN THE CAMPGROUNDS START FILLING UP FOR LABOR DAY WEEKND ?THINK THEY WILL BE FULL BY THURSDAY SEPT 1 ?I PLAN ON COMING UP TO THE LAKE WED THINK IT WILL BE TO LATE TO GET A STOP FOR THE WEEKND ?PLEASE LET ME KNOW THANKS

Boji Film Productions

okobojivideo@yahoo.com

Sunday, August 14, 2005 at 10:59 PM
Hi everyone. We are putting together a 2 DVD set of Lyles life. The disc will include the police escort bringing him from Spencer to here. Before the funeral, the slideshow played at the funeral, after the funeral, additional pics from his motorcycle club, additional photos from his cousin that were taken that day, and footage of everyone at the tent after the funeral. If you would like a copy they are $37. Please send money to PO BOX 622, Arnolds Park, IA 51331. All profits after we get our cost back will go to the family. Lyle will be remebered by everyone he touched so many people it is amazing. If there are any quetsions you can call Boji Film Productions at 712.338.4028. Thanks it is going to be amazing.

who's to blame

local

Monday, August 15, 2005 at 3:07 PM
I'm as upset as anyone about the boating "accident" on West Lake, but a lot of people are trying to place the blame on the # of boats on the lake, the size of the boats on the lake, the speed of the boats, and the??DNR??. First of all think about it, we have auto accidents EVERY day of the week. They don't change the laws everytime one happens. as for the .08 law and the DNR not doing their job inforcing that, I do believe it's .10 on water. Be that as it may the DNR is doing their part to cut down on drunk drivers. As for the size, speed and amount of boats on the water, the boat they are looking for is about 22' not 40' and the boat that got hit was traveling @ 15-20 and we don't know how much faster the missing boat was going. I do agree that maybe a "no wake after dark" law would help,, nothing is going to STOP all accidents. I know I'll be ripped for this, but had the driver of the boat that got hit been drinking??? If you want to refer to auto laws, if he had he shouldn't have been there in the first place. I'm not saying he was or wasn't, just saying that before ya'll rip on the laws and the DNR ya better know the facts.

lisa

ggdmnbun@ncn.net

Monday, August 15, 2005 at 5:50 PM
according to the Iowa Boating Regulations No person may operate a boat or water ski under the influence of alcohol or drugs.Doesn't this mean zero tolerance? I guess I didn't know all the ins and outs until I looked for myself and were there horns being blown every 2 minutes? If nothing else I guess we all better review the rules of the water before heading out. Here's to better sailing.

lisa

ggdmnbun@ncn.net

Monday, August 15, 2005 at 9:52 PM
Would this boat have damage or did Mr.B fall in the boat and die from injuries or was he found in the water? There are tons of stories and not very many facts. I saw 4 white and red boats on my travels today between Algona and Estherville and they all had covers and looked very respectable but to me all boats look the same. Do we know what kind of damage, hole of anytype?

Boating Accident	@@@@@@@@@@@
Monday, August 15, 2005 at 9:53 PM As for the accident, maybe they need to do like Saylorville Lake, shut em down, no boating after dark, just a thought.

FYI	IDWS
Tuesday, August 16, 2005 at 7:12 AM The driver of the boat which carried the victim and his wife was tested for alcohol as a matter of course in an accident of this nature; he was found to be under "no such influence". Further, the 15-20 mph speed of the craft was well within proper protocol and safety regulation guideline.

Chuck	Wondering
Tuesday, August 16, 2005 at 7:36 PM Does anyone know if the Depot where the Sander's Great Smokey Central Railroad is housed at the Clay County fairgrounds is open during the summer? I'm planning on being down there the end of the month and would like to go see it. I remember seeing it when it was in Okoboji many years ago, and would like to see the big set up they have now.

Michael Brainard

michaelbrainard@imt.com

Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 11:34 AM
I am all for a NO WAKE speed limit after dark...or at least 20-30mph limit. Other lakes I visit have speed limits....and the small size the Iowa Great Lakes warrants such rules. I am all for a speedlimit during day light hours too! These lakes are too small for 30' and larger boats...and any boat traveling in excess of 60mph. My boat will run 74mph if I want it to, but I am responsible enough to know the dangers of traveling at such a speed on a small body of water. I do have to laugh at people blaming this on alcohol. True, alcohol COULD have been a factor. But so could stupidity, poor visibility ( it was VERY DARK, was it not? ) or even the lighting not working on the boat that was hit. There are a million factors that could have caused this. Excessive speed in a watercraft is dangerous enough during the day. Factory in the darkness of nightfall, and you are just asking to hit something....shoreline, dock, or another boat. Someone here mentioned the bars being at fault. Give me a break. YOU ARE ALL RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. A bar tender shouldn't have to babysit every schmuck who has too much to drink. Until we all live in a perfectly safe world, be smart on the water or on the road. Be aware of the driving conditions, be aware of other vehicles, be aware of your surroundings and be responsible for yourself. No on else will be. And to the moron that failed to stop and help the people he/she harmed.... I hope you like hiding!

Nice

Comments

Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 1:27 PM
Finally, someone that is realistic about this whole horrible issue. Only the individuals hiding now should be blamed and punished for this. There should be a law in effect to slow boats down out there at night, and during the day but until then - Please, slow down. I can't count a night that I don't hear some clown on the lake tearing it up. I personally don't care how big the boats are until they cut me off at 70MPH.(my boat will do over 70 as well) You can't try and place blame on others for the actions of morons.

Addition

Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 1:45 PM
I guess I would also like to commend the DNR for what I feel is a great job policing the lakes area. I am against drunken boating. But I don't think that if you are idling around the lake drinking a beer or having some wine that any of our DNR will take issue with you. It's usually the intoxicated clowns that take off in no-wake zones or who fly across the lake in a crowd that we all should agree need to be penalized or removed.

Friend of the Victims

Summer Regular

Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 2:12 PM
I've just been reading the posts here about the boating accident last week, and I'm amazed at the ability people have to distort the facts and create new ones. Just so you know: Their were three couples on the boat returning home from an evening out, and the driver was NOT drinking (they utilized a designated driver). The gentleman that was killed and his injured wife were in the back of the boat, standing up and watching the meteor shower. They all did see the boat a ways away and wondered if it were the DNR because it was going so fast. I guess if any of us saw a boat at night going that fast, we would wonder, too, but would never suspect the driver would be so irresponsible as to not watch where they were going. Apparently, that's what happened - the driver simply drove over them from behind, hitting the victims, flying over the end of the boat, and continuing on. I know I've often see large boats moving quite fast, and I don't know how anyone can see over the top of them. Clearly the driver didn't care that he couldn't see. By the way, both boats did have proper lights, to silence that rumor. Hopefully the driver's conscience (or that of one of the passengers) will evenutally get to them and they will talk about it. I would assume alcohol was a factor; certainly no one would be enough of an idiot or that careless without having their judgement severely impaired. So put your rumors and negative speculation to rest about the victims and everyone keep an eye and ear out for any clue or information about that driver. May the families of the victims find peace and solace in the caring of so many.

David & Laura

nebraska.u

Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 3:38 PM
I sincerely hope they catch the hit-and-run boater. I can't believe this tragedy happened nearly in front of Village West, where we've stayed the past 2 summers. Of all the irresponsible, cowardly and criminal things to do...run over the top of another boat in the middle of the night and keep GOING? And never come forward? I'd like to see an APB out for not only the boat, but anyone who purchases a prop or other equipment for a possibly damaged, 22' boat should be required to provide proof of the size and color of boat. I know this sounds a little radical but it might be the only way to find the criminal. The idea the runaway boat sank a little further from the accident isn't one I'd considered...though would it have sank THAT fast? Surely someone might have heard something besides the wreck. Again, I hope they find this freak and that they not only lose their license to operate ANY power vehicle for the rest of their life but that they get an extra year in jail for every DAY they kept silent about this tragedy.

ma	mas4drwagn@yahoo.com
Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 3:45 PM thanks for setting us all straight and now we know somewhat of what the families were thinking and doing at the time.

Slow down

local

Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 6:56 PM
I also think there should be laws governing the speed of the boats and also checking the consumption of the drivers on the water. I have seen a couple of large boats on East Lake that are going wide open, 80 or more, with no regard for the safety of anyone else. This is in the middle of the night and also in the daytime. With as many boats that are out on the lake now, I am sure that this accident is only the beginning.

Michael Brainard

michaelbrainard@imt.com

Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 10:17 PM
Posted by Friend of the Victims Wednesday, August 17, 2005 at 2:12 PM "I would assume alcohol was a factor; certainly no one would be enough of an idiot or that careless without having their judgement severely impaired. So put your rumors and negative speculation to rest about the victims and everyone keep an eye and ear out for any clue or information about that driver." I don't think that asking if the victims lights were working or not was NEGATIVE. As a matter of fact, I was on the water that night. Not on Okoboji, but another lake. The sky was clear and it was still VERY VERY DARK. Talk about NEGATIVE speculation!!! You admit you ASSUME alcohol played a part in this. Is that Postitive speculation? What about fear? What about panic? There is no excuse for someone leaving the scene of an accident like this. NONE. But I can see it happening...sorry everyone...but I am suprised something like this doesn't happen more often...alcohol or not. There is ONE thing that can help to avoid such accidents and that is a strictly enforced speedlimit after dark. Drunk or sober, if you are idling you won't cause much damage. Everyone needs to understand, not everyone uses a boat every day. Most are lucky to use their boat once a week, three months out of the year. Many people use their boat once or twice a year. Most are not trained to properly use and navigate their boat. A good majority of the people you see on the lake haven't the slightest clue what they are doing on the water. There are no centerlines, no sense of direction, no speed limits...no organization PERIOD! Personal watercraft are even a bigger issues. How many people actually know what the red and green lights really mean on the bow of your boat?? Do YOU? Sorry to stir the coals. But there is nothing that burns me more than someone instantly assuming that because there was an accident that someone must have been drunk. If he/she was so drunk, how did they do such a fantastic job of hiding from the DNR, Police, and the public? DOn't get me wrong...he/she could have been drunk...could have been sober...could have had 2 drinks...could have had 15. He could have just left a bar or could have had a case of beer on ice in the cooler next to the passengers seat. Who knows. If people scream and yell enough, fools like this will destory our privilage to consume alcohol on the water. I enjoy a cold one or two while putting around the lake. Everyone does. Don't let alcohol be the blame when there are other more important issues that would make everyone safer.

drinking	on the boat
Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 6:59 AM Why on earth is it ok to drink on a watercraft and not even sitting in a car? To someone's point, drivers of boats are oten less experienced. Things get out of control quickly when boating. Stupid to drink wile boating -- it should be illegal.

large boats

and speed

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 8:48 AM
Granted they are saying that the boat was probobly only 22 feet long,,,but one person here does have a good point about the guidelines on the water and how it truely is amazing accidents don't occur more often, with no center lines,,,,etc....we are out in the water a lot and I am amazed at how many idiots there are out there,,,and just because their boats are bigger,, they can just pull in front of you in line at the bridge,,,and zoom through with a wake...or not respect your right of way,,,,(whatever the right of way it) many time we have been clearly making a b line in one direction and a larger boat will look directly at us and drive across right in front of us!! And like he said the inexperience,,,people have to respect the water and learn little things like what all the buoys mean,,,I think new and inexperience boaters just don't know,,,they just get in their boats and gooooo, its to bad the local marina's couldn't put together a little book to put with the boats and watercrafts they sell,,,to point all those little things out,,,even if its just for our little lakes,,,it could help out for other lakes as well....

Little Books

For Boating

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 12:49 PM
There are books for boating and it's called The Handbook for IOWA Boating Laws and Responsiblities. It is the OPERATOR'S and OWNERS responsiblity to know these laws and get them. I would encourage everyone who operates or owns a boat to get one of these and all of those who have written on this message board. Most who have written on this board about laws are so inaccurate it makes me sick. Go to the DNR hatchery, county recorder, or Lake Patrol Station to pick one up. Reading this book may shock you about boating laws and the person who wrote about 4th amendment rights.

ma	mas4drwagon@yahoo.com
Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 3:13 PM I've learned the hard way but does everyone know what assume really means? Makes an a out of u and me. and how true that is. When you get your boat registered there are boat books there. Pick we up or look on the net under boat regulations they are at your fingertips or a click away.

Hellllooooo!	=0
Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 6:14 PM Lawbreakers don't read the rule books.

BoatRammer1

concerned

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 6:27 PM
Does anyone remember a couple years ago when the DNR boat patrol ran over a boat on the lake late at night. I am not sure what happened I want to say the victim was killed in the accident. It was a big story for about two weeks because there was controversy of if the boat that was ran into by the DNR had its proper lights on. Last I heard it was an ongoing investigation. Does anyone know what the final outcome was?

BoatRammer1

concerned

Minnesotadreamer

mndreamer@gamil.com

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 6:41 PM
It is amazing to me that we are sustaining the Park. The museum, Queen II and park are all vital to the area but the board today is going about this all wrong. Has anyone seen their brochure? They state it was miss managed in the past! Even if they could prove it was miss managed, why would you make such a negative statement and try to raise money! This area is a positive place that since this new board has come on, it has been nothing but depressed and their brochure supports this theory. We are supposed to place our faith in a board of successful local business people due to their reputations. Well if you are willing to place your money into reputation of backstabbing and under minding people then we should support the park. Otherwise until a new board comes on my friends and I are not sustaining anything but our personal accounts.

Law breakers	don't read?
Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 7:24 PM If law breakers don't read, then the mass majority of boaters don't read either, which would classify them as law breakers. Most don't have the slightest clue and the rest just stay the heck away from others and putt putt around the lake

Are you	Kidding me
Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 7:29 PM What does the DNR boat have to do with any of this? Get with the times, that happened in the mid to late 90's. It's a closed case and the stern light was tested and not enough illumination was the outcome. That's what happens when boaters don't evaluate and check their equipment. Take extra bulbs out with you!!

michaelbrainard

michaelbrainard@imt.com

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 9:20 PM
People, people, people. When approaching a boat from behind, especially near shore, what do you see? Possibly NOTHING. Even if the stern light is working. If you are near shore, what else do you see? House lights, street lights, dock lights....and one itty bitty white stern light mixed in with all of the other lights. You can't see the bow lights because they are in front of the boat, obstructed from your view at the rear. This is a VERY EASY THING TO MISS! It has happened to me a couple times....SOBER! Luckly for me, I was barely moving and was able to navigate out of harms way. Had I been doing 40-50-60...not a chance. I will say it again. A no wake speedlimit or 20 mph limit is needed after dark. I know a bunch of people will rake me over the coals for supporting this.....but i would feel much safer.

Lyle Edward Donkersloot	Donkersloots
Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 10:38 PM From The family of Lyle Edward Donkersloot. We would like to express sincere gratitude for the outpouring of love and sympathy during this time of grieving. We are overwhelmed by your support. Thank you, the Donkersloot family.

Lyle Donkersloot Tribute

info@indianokoboji.com

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 10:59 PM
To Whom It May Concern: We at Chopper Central have been encouraged to pursue any idea; in honor of our president and founder; we are thinking about collecting "Lyle Stories" and publishing them in a book format. We would first like to know: What are your thoughts about this idea? Could you help by forwarding this message to anyone you know that might have a "Lyle Story"? If you have any "Lyle Stories" could you please send them to me via email with the following at the top: "I _______________understand that this story may be used by Chopper Central in the production and publication of a book in honor of Lyle Edward Donkersloot. I give my permission for this story to be edited and used in this book". INDIAN MOTORCYCLE OKOBOJI HWY 71, PO BOX 713 ARNOLDS PARK, IOWA 51331 Phone: 712-332-6039 Fax: 712-332-6117

Boating &

Driving drunk

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 11:25 PM
Why are there no law enforcement DNR out actively looking for drunk boaters at night? Everyone knows that if you want to get smashed at the bar, drive your boat. You'll get home without being bothered by DNR boats, cause everyone knows that the street cops in the lakes have scared most people from driving their cars drunk cause the cops do their job, which some disagree with because they think they have a right to drive drunk cause its the "lakes", but you don't have the right to take someones life. More and more I am actually glad and proud that the cops have known something for a long time that most of us are now just beginning to understand, Drunk driving is not about picking on people, its about saving people! DNR it is time to do the same on the water that the local cops do on the streets in the lakes area!!!

Boating and

Driving drunk

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 11:28 PM
Why are there no law enforcement DNR out actively looking for drunk boaters at night? Everyone knows that if you want to get smashed at the bar, drive your boat. You'll get home without being bothered by DNR boats, cause everyone knows that the street cops in the lakes have scared most people from driving their cars drunk cause the cops do their job, which some disagree with because they think they have a right to drive drunk cause its the "lakes", but you don't have the right to take someones life. More and more I am actually glad and proud that the cops have known something for a long time that most of us are now just beginning to understand, arresting drunk drivers is not about picking on people, its about saving people! DNR it is time to do the same on the water that the local cops do on the streets in the lakes area!!!

To: Boating and

Driving Drunk

Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 11:44 PM
How do you suggest the DNR go about this? Should they stop every boat at night? Which by law they can. Its not realistic though. Boats don't drive left of center or right of the solid white line. Basically the only way they will get pulled over is faulty lights, speed and distance, and just plain stupidity. The DNR has,in all reality, prevented many, many accidents on the Lake. Just their visibility alone, will help deter and has definitely deterred people from going over the line. Have you ever wondered if its the area, the atmosphere, the bars, the booze, the party side of Okoboji that creates this? However, we must not assume that alcohol was the factor in this unfortunate accident.

Why point	Fingers
Thursday, August 18, 2005 at 11:53 PM Why is it so easy for some of you to point fingers at the DNR? They aren't the problem in this, they are trying to solve it. Talk to your State Rep. if you want a Law changed. You could of had 100 DNR personnel on the water and an accident still could have happened.

Donkersloot Tribute	: - )
Friday, August 19, 2005 at 12:15 PM I think that's a great idea! And I hope you all are doing well. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Lyle was an extrodinary man. He's someone who will never be forgotten. Good Luck and God Bless you all!! A Friend~

Donkersloot Tribute

: - )

Friday, August 19, 2005 at 6:19 PM
To the person with the ??? marks. Collecting Lyle Stories to have published in a magazine. President and Founder of Chopper Central "Lyle Edward Donkersloot" was killed July 31, 2005 by an underaged drunk driver in The Lake of the Ozarks,Mo. in a motorcylce/car accident They would like to have a book published in his honor. Anyone with a story they'd like to have published e-mail your info to info@inianokoboji.com or simply scroll down this page and read it for yourself. Thank you. I still think it's a great idea.

Powhatan	powatan@va.state,us
Friday, August 19, 2005 at 6:34 PM THe next time you're over at Whiskey Dicks would you please focus the web cam? Man, is it out of focus!!

a concerned observrt

@okoboji

Friday, August 19, 2005 at 9:38 PM
I have been on the dock by the Barefoot Bar and the docks by the downtown area. I have personally seen people that were too drunk to walk, stagger over to their boat, fall in, fumble to start it, and take off across the lake. If you try to warn them about drinking and driving, their reply is "I will be okay. I am driving my boat." This is no secret. Everyone that lives here has seen it. This is not only a few people, it is a lot of people. Please, let's get the lake patrolled just like it is on the roads. The next accident will be at Winter Games. The town is full of drunks, tearing across the ice, on snowmobiles. We need a lot more officers here before more people die needlessly. There is an increasing number of people coming in all the time. Also more drunks. This drunken boating and snowmobiling is way out of hand. They should have the same penalties as drunken auto drivers. You cannot drive your car with a beer in your hand. It should be the same for any driver of anything. Lets get the booze off the boats and snowmobiles.

Peter Davidson

peterdavidson@mchsi.com

Friday, August 19, 2005 at 9:59 PM
OKOBOJI BOOK SIGNING THANK YOU. Thanks to the Iowa Rock 'N Roll Museum for sponsoring "The Mother of All Book Signings" on Thursday night, August 18, at the Roof Garden for the novel that I wrote, OKOBOJI. Thanks also to the dozens of people who have roles in the story who participated in the book signing and to the hundreds of people who turned out for the book signing, which was held in conjunction with the final Rock The Roof concert of the season. You kept us signing books for over three solid hours! Also thanks for the many kind comments about the book. I'm pleased that so many people have read the book and have enjoyed it. It was truly a pleasure to write the book, set in what I consider to be the greatest place in America, Okoboji. Peter Davidson

point

Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 12:07 AM
Point is that during bar closing when most drunk boaters are boating home, the DNR has a skeleton crew on duty. I have a buddy that is with the DNR and stated that in his opinion they should have 3 or 4 boats out between 10:00pm and 3:00am, and they don't. And they don't have a law enforcement DNR officer out during these times, just summertime helpers that don't have the training and experience that the law inforcement Dnr guys do. Yes they do prevent things, and no they can't prevent everything, but the more out there during the primetime hours of drunk boating the more people would be detered to drive drunk on the water to begin with. And the more careful most people would be knowing that they are being watched for violations.

Pome

Local Resident

Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 1:06 AM
My whole take on this hit and run on West Lake; some RICH KID had to much to drink, hit the boat and PANICKED. So he called DADDY to bail him out. They got the boat out of the water, stashed it and called a close friend that would come and fix it and tell no one. It has happened before, when the rich kids go bad, the parents will do whatever it takes to hide the evidence and blame someone else! Money is POWER and with power, you make your own rules. But in REALITY, you have nothing and YOU ARE NOTHING! This man that you killed will HAUNT you every waking moment of your life. He will HAUNT you while you sleep and HAUNT all of those that helped you escape! May you and those that helped you be tormented with what you have done. For when someone kills, that person (or child) will HAUNT you. Never, ever leaving you alone. Because you stole their life, you cheated them and you hid! YOU ARE A COWARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Even with your money, you can't buy your way out of that...being a coward!

excellent	!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 7:30 AM to concerned observant -- you have got it right! We need the same rules for boats as autos. NO drinking by the drivers or passengers! NO open containers, period!

Opinion....

Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 9:14 AM
Well since we are sharing our opinions about who we think did it, I think that it is somebody influential in the community.... I think that they were out either by themselves or with somebody.... they were drinking out on the lake, the accident happened and they are scared to tell anybody about it. Something like this happened years ago, when it finally came out who did it.... it just so happened to be a local lawyer. People always jump to the conclusion it must be a kid just leaving the bars and who was partying all night, it seems like lately we have been having more problems with "older" people than with the younger.... I think when we finally find out who did it, we are all going to be shocked.

ma	mas4drwagon@yahoo.com
Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 10:48 AM Since the DNR are short of help at night why not all of us stick together and turn these idiots who are leaving the bars drunk and stupid in. That is why there are numbers on the boats. They have a name behind the number. It's funny how money can by silence. But God will get them in the end and probably all of us for speculating.

For What	It Is Worth
Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 3:08 PM Iowa DCI has been hear a few days. they are close, very close. keep an ear to KUOO. it should have been on the noon news today.

Shell	mmmmm
Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 4:37 PM I am confused, did they find out who did it or what? I haven't heard anything.

Boat incident	link
Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 5:45 PM You can follow the latest at www.exploreokoboji.com/news. Okay?

More problems

for Okoboji.com

Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 9:11 PM
I just saw on exploreokoboji.com ,under news, that the Milford guy that they arrested for spreading the HIV virus has also been with at least a dozen more Okoboji women. According to the news at this site there is at least a dozen more local women that are being tested and receiving counseling. They also rounded up some more of the dancer? at Zippers,where he hung out, for testing. The guy's picture is also on there. Looks like there is more than drunks to beware of in this community.

Michael Brainard

michaelbrainard

Saturday, August 20, 2005 at 11:26 PM
Oh My GOD. Ban this, stop that, make this illegal, make that illegal...blah blah blah. One law will stop this....A SPEED LIMIT! Anyone caught breaking this law beyond a specific point loses boating rights on the lake for the season, pays a fine...etc etc etc. Especailly at night. Banning booze in boats will do nothing. It has never stopped anyone from having beer in autos...has it? NO. And it never will. Nor will it stop people from drinking in bars and then boating....IT WON'T WORK . It won't stop people from dropping anchor at Gull Point or Millers Bay, jumping in the water and floating a cooler full of Bud Light and drinking all day..WILL IT?! Heck no. Someone else here said something like this : people get killed in cars every day....one person dies in a boat and everyone jumps to conclusions and tries to stop everyone else from having fun because of ONE IDIOT. Please, do not think I am minimizing this horrific tragedy. I really am not. There are ways to remedy this problem but we don't need a bunch of radicals jumping on band wagons. Think about it. Oh, and for the exhaust noise limit..what is that all about? Has anyone ever heard a Harley Davidson??? Sit at the Wharf or Boji Boat works, and wait for a pack of bikers to cross the bridge....you think the open exhaust boats are loud?? Give me a break. If loud pipes save lives, I am opening up the exhaust on my boat to make it louder.

sober boater

common sense

Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 9:09 AM
The idea of making new laws because of this boat accident is absolutely ridiculous. The driver of the boat has obviously proven that he/she does not obey the law (leaving the scene of an accident) so what makes all of you extremists think that the driver would obey new speed or alcohol laws? New laws only punish and take away the rights of the innocent. Those who break the law will break ALL laws no matter how many laws you have. It's time to stop this ignorant thinking and concentrate on finding and punishing this person, not the innocent.

to : sober boater	michaelbrainard@imt.com
Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 10:05 AM So, Sober Boater do you not think a speed limit at NIGHT is a good idea?

so I am

an extremist?

Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 10:51 AM
It is not extreme at all to ban alcohol while boating. Of course it would not stop all law-breakers, but it WOULD be a step in the right direction. I worry for you if drinking is so precious to you that you are afraid of a law to make it illegal while using a watercraft that can kill someone.... Drinking while driving an auto is STUPID. Drinking while operating a watercraft is STUPID. If you think otherwise, you are immature and not a realist. YOU CAN BE IMPAIRED AND NOT REALIZE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jayhawk

rage1@mchsi.com

Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 11:03 AM
I would agree that a new law or ordinance will not stop anyone who chooses not to obey laws in the first place; however I would concur with Michael that having a speed limit law after sunset would do potentially eliminate or reduce the possibility of a terrible tradegy from happening. There are near misses every day with the boat traffic on our lakes. Factor in darkness, compromised depth perception and vertigo and I would have to side that a slower pace of boating traffic at dark could create enough awareness that someone who might want to go fast after a night out would think twice about it.

a great	idea
Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 12:43 PM A speed limit at night is a wonderful idea. Makes a great deal of sense!

Michael Brainard

michaelbrainard@imt.com

Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 1:00 PM
Jayhawk and others; thank you for your opinions on the night time speed limit. I would like to express why I think a daytime speedlimit would also be beneficial. In an automobile, on a highway, all vehicles are operating at similar speeds in the same direction....withing 5-10mph at least. What happens when you are traveling at 60 and you come upon somoene traveling 20-30?? You know what happens. If you aren't paying attention you nearly rearend them. You nail the brakes, swerve, swear a little. Same thing on the water, except on the water, there are no other rules governing your direction or location, and no brakes...you can go anywhere, at any angle, at any speed. I can also say, most boats under 23' have no business traveling over 60 mph on anything but glassy smooth water. I had a 20' Baja that was capble of exceeding 60...and it was not stable at that speed in any kind of chop. Throw an inexperienced driver in it, alcohol, darkness, stupidity, rough water.....whatever variables you think may play a part in dangerous boating...and you are asking for trouble. There is nothing worse than cruising on the lake 20-30mph only to have another boat overtake yours...passing you going 60-70+...and generally traveling far too close to your craft...then having to fight the wake. Just my opinions...not trying to be a radical or extreem. Just voicing my experiences and opinions. And yes, I do like a cold beer in the boat. SO THERE>

michael brainard	michaelbrainard@imt.com
Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 1:03 PM Just another note - I think using your real names and email address would be a great step in the right direction. If you want to voice your opinions, use your names.

Travis Andersen	travisandersen@hotmail.com
Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 2:05 PM Michael - Good luck getting people to put their names/e-mail addresses on here. I posted some miss-information yesterday, I stand corrected, it was not an employee of a local bar, but an out of state resident, a warrant has been issued for this persons arrest, it will be in the news mon. or tues.

lisa

ggdmnbun@ncn.net

Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 3:30 PM
I don't know where people are getting this there needs to be a speed limit on the water. There is according to the boatsafe.com website. 1.Do not exceed 5 mph within 100 feet over 5mph they should stay 50 ft apart. 2.you should not exceed 10mph unless vision is unobrructed more than 200 ft ahead. that also includes the front end of the boat. 3. on inland lakes and federal impoundments Do not exceed 10 mph with in 300 feet of shore. Don't people look at rules before the speak? I'm learning more and more about water safety each time I read on here.I think there should be no boats on the water after dark.Period.You go out for supper go before dark if you're taking the boat

michael brainard

to LISA

Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 9:41 PM
Don't people look at the rules before they speak? What kind of comment is that? Why are other areas mandating speed limits? Because of safty. Lake of the Ozarks in MO has a 30 mph limit at night...and the water patrol down there doesn't let ANYTIHNG SLIP. NOTHING. NO WARNINGS...NONE. You get a ticket or kicked off the lake. Read what you just wrote...is it specific? Not at all. What is unobstructed vision? Does that include darkness? Rain??...etc...etc...etc. A speedlimit at a specific time is SIMPLE and easy. Water patrol can easily monitor your speed via radar....and if there is a NO WAKE rule in effect after dark, people violating it will be very easy to pick out of the croud, don't you think? Anything on the lake that actually looks like it is MOVING is breaking the law. Simple, eh? I think so. There is nothing wrong with boating at night if you are careful and respectful of others. Another note.....most of use went through drivers education classes in High School....then we took tests to get out license...maybe even had to drive for the DOT...boating is a bit different. Buy a boat, dump it in the water and go, educated or not. There are no signs, ( speed, stop, yield, turn...etc ) nothing directing you once you are on your way. Do people know the rules? No..they dont. It is more obvious ever time I go to the lake. A 20 page book of rules and regulations doesn't do much either. Maybe you should get out on the water with the DNR and pass them out to people.

Laws	Stats
Sunday, August 21, 2005 at 10:04 PM Keep in mind that statistics change laws. Also, powerful people change laws, like those with money and those with some "ties."

to michael	ggdmnbun@ncn.net
Monday, August 22, 2005 at 8:07 AM Hey do get your undies in a knot, I'm just getting the facts off of a boatsafe in iowa website. I would think theey would know the facts unless you wrote them .I know I don't know all the rules and that's why I don't drive a boat or go out in a boat after dark.

michael brainard	To LISA
Monday, August 22, 2005 at 12:05 PM So, you aren't even a boater? You don't drive a boat and are telling me what the rules should be? Gotcha.

Travis Andersen	travisandersen@hotmail.com
Monday, August 22, 2005 at 12:28 PM Did Mark Stockdale come back as Michael Brainard?

To : SO SAD	WHAT ??
Monday, August 22, 2005 at 3:10 PM The phrase is actually: What GOES around COMES around.

Pome

Local Resident

Monday, August 22, 2005 at 5:10 PM
This is only my opinion; It doesn't matter if there was a speed limit on the lake or if alchol was banned from boating. ONLY insecure and irresponsible people break the laws. Because they think the rules don't apply to them. They feel as the world owes them something. They feel they can do whatever they chose when they chose! Rich or poor, ONLY ONE thing is different between them. The poor can't cover up their tracks and hide things. The rich can...Always have and always will! It is NOT what you know; it is WHO you know! Everything and anything is for sale. You need a get FREE out of jail card, you make a call. When you are poor, you have the book thrown at you. And you will be made an example. But if you are rich...ahhh, poor thing, don't worry no one will ever find out. Oh, by the way...I could sure use $$$$$$$$$. You can tell me this is all a lie, but wake up people and smell the coffee! What in God's name are you doing with your double standards? There are 2 SETS OF RULES, one for the poor/middle class and a whole other set for the rich. And those same rich people are the ones that sit next to you at church and are judgemental. Throw the book at them, they say. Yet when they do wrong, quick hide it and get the check book! Not all rich people are bad, I can name several that are REAL CHRISTIANS, not POSERS like several others I know.

P.S.	Correction
Monday, August 22, 2005 at 6:30 PM And I don't mean to include the things about Lyle.

Curt	stingray4496@yahoo.com
Monday, August 22, 2005 at 7:39 PM You think you have problems now just wait til ya all get your new water park and 580 new condos. That should put a few more boats out on the water. I think the DNR does a wonderful job out there. They deserve a pat on the back and a atta boy. They should not have to babysit adults on the water at night !!!! Keep up the GOOD WORK !!!!

michael brainard

michaelbrainard@imt.com

Monday, August 22, 2005 at 8:22 PM
I think, a speed limit WOULD indeed stop people....if the punishment was great enough....like I said, kick them off of the lake for a YEAR. Next level would be to yank their license. Sorry but the punishment should be extreem! Same for operating while under the influence. There is no place for excessive speed or drunks on the lake, especailly at night. Who is Mark Stockdale? Sorry for my ignorance!

lisa	ggdmnbun@ncn.net
Monday, August 22, 2005 at 8:48 PM Hey Michael, I didn't say I wasn't a boater just I don't drive a boat nor do I go boating after dark. I do enjoy boating very much if I have my family with me on a not so crowded lake and away from the lakes area.

Yank their

License?

Monday, August 22, 2005 at 8:56 PM
Once again we have another misconception with boating. What does a license have to do with boating? You don't need one! Yank their license? That can't be Michael! There can be no relation to a driver's license and boating. Thats 2 different chapters in the code of Iowa (321 and 462). Look them up! Sometimes your consequences to all these laws you want are unrealistic and would never pass in a legislative session.

Tuesday, August 23, 2005 at 9:09 AM
Tuesday, August 23, 2005 Sheriff: Suspect Wanted In Fatal Hit & Run Is NOT From Lakes Area (Spirit Lake)-- It's a slow process, but investigators are gradually narrowing down the list of possible suspects in a fatal hit-and-run boat accident earlier this month on West Lake Okoboji. Dickinson County Sheriff Greg Baloun told KUOO news Monday a suspect being sought in the case is NOT from the Iowa Great Lakes Area. Numerous rumors have been making the rounds since it was announced last weekend authorities had seized a boat believed to have been involved in the crash. Kevin Baskins of the Iowa Department of Natural Resources says investigators have spent the last several days analyzing the boat and trying to reconstruct just how the accident took place. He says it's a very time consuming, meticulous process. Baskins and Baloun say they hope they'll be able to release additional details very soon. No charges have been filed yet and no arrests have been made yet in the case. A funeral service for Doctor Michael Brosnahan of Perry, who was killed in the crash, was held Monday in West Des Moines. His wife, Jill, was injured in the crash. She has since been released from the hospital.

Re: MB	My opinion
Tuesday, August 23, 2005 at 9:44 AM I think Michael Brainard has some admirable opinions . . . just takes a little too long to say them.

other tragic accident	noyb
Tuesday, August 23, 2005 at 3:05 PM I don't claim to know all the facts. But there was another tragic boat accident last summer. A 6 yr old girl was killed. This accident happended during the broad daylight. Weather was not a factor, nor was ALCOHOL. It was a senseless accident. Does anyone know what happen to the person who killed this little girl? Was this person ever charged?

Has anyone heard anymore about. . .	The Donkersloot Tribute?
Tuesday, August 23, 2005 at 6:04 PM What is going on with the Donkersloot Tribute? I think it is a great idea. I would like to hear more about it. Thank You.

Family friend

skinnyt_lady@msn.com

Wednesday, August 24, 2005 at 3:08 PM
Just a note from Perry, the hometown of the accident victims, Broz loved the lakes & Broz loved to boat. His home there was open to all. He would not want his ACCIDENTAL death to become a shouting match between other lake lovers nor would he expect laws to be passed restricting the freedoms of responsible boaters in his name. The person responsible will be dealt with utilizing the existing laws. It was quoted this week at one of the many services or in one of the numerous news articles that Mike's Okoboji ritual included toasting his wife Jill with "It doesn't get any better than this" Okoboji is a lovely resort town. I owned a place there myself until just recently. I wouldn't change a thing........I don't think Mike & Jill would either. Sit on your dock, sit on the shore, raise your glass & remember...if you are in Okoboji right now....IT DOESN'T GET ANY BETTER THAN THIS! More laws will not make Okoboji better. It is tragic but it was an accident.Let this go.

To "Family Friend"	...
Wednesday, August 24, 2005 at 3:23 PM Well said. Take their message to heart people.

To; Family Friend	Thank u
Wednesday, August 24, 2005 at 4:02 PM Well said.

Bob Johnsrude	bjohns@rconnect.com
Wednesday, August 24, 2005 at 4:03 PM Lets leave at this RIP

To the Donkersloot Family!!!!	a local friend :-)
Wednesday, August 24, 2005 at 4:38 PM What's up with the Tribute for Lyle?? I Am very interested in what everyone has to write as far as "Lyle Stories" I have a few of my own. Lets git r done. ;-) Lets get that magazine out. I can't wait to get one my self. With love to all of you. Hope you all are doing well. Love Ya's

Lyle	Lyle tributes
Thursday, August 25, 2005 at 2:16 AM If you have any Lyle stories to share contact info@indianokoboji.com OR okobojivideo@yahoo.com

Lyle	Okoboji Book
Thursday, August 25, 2005 at 2:28 AM Is Lyle a character in the new book "Okoboji" written by Peter Davidson, that just came out this spring???Has anybody seen or read this book that was just published recently? What did you think of it???

to: Family Friend	*******
Thursday, August 25, 2005 at 8:18 AM Well said.... thank you

Mike Shorey

justmike@mchsi.com

Thursday, August 25, 2005 at 9:06 AM
Donkersloot Family: There are two people that should be commended.: Lyle is still very much in our thoughts, and Always will be! I am proud to have known him. He left a positive mark on me that I will carry through the rest of my life I COMMEND YOU, The parents of LYLE for raising such a Great, Honorable son. He has helped me out in countless ways. He will never be forgottten!.... Mike Shorey

Weekend

foreveruostudent

Thursday, August 25, 2005 at 12:18 PM
Looks like the weather coming this weekend should be just picture perfect!!! I plan to ride the Queen with my family, get one last ski/wakeboard in early in the morning on the "glass" and enjoy this beautiful area. Unfortunately, we won't get to be here Labor day weekend...so this is sadly "it" for us for the Summer of 2005. I've enjoyed the families that have joined us there this summer, I've enjoyed the new folks that we have met, and of course, I have enjoyed the continued memories that we continue to reap. You're right... It doesn't get any better than this!

I read the book....	Okoboji
Thursday, August 25, 2005 at 1:13 PM Yes Lyle was in the book. I read the book and I liked it, it was different than I had imagined but I liked reading about the different places and the people that were based on real lakes area people.

Amber Freesemann	wsrvball12@hotmail.com
Friday, August 26, 2005 at 7:38 AM Does anyone know any more infomation on the boating accident. If you know anything on the boating accident please email me at wsrvball12@hotmail.com or freeseamber@hotmail.com

To DSMBeach	Native
Friday, August 26, 2005 at 10:50 AM OK Chris, time for you to get a real job and take your nose out of everyone else's business. If we had it your way, you would be the only one living on the lake. Why don't you run for Council so your "say" could have a real impact. And one other thing, get your glass half full instead of half empty. Have a nice day all.

DSMbeach	Native5Generations
Friday, August 26, 2005 at 11:26 AM It wouldn't be right for me to let you assume that I'm Chris. Many of us on Dsm Beach share her sentiments and simply want to maintain the beauty and safety of our beach. Somehow that doesn't fit with bar parking lots and beer joints. Sorry, I don't buy into the VISION of more bars and am proud to say my drinking glass is empty.

Harrison Ford	In Omaha
Friday, August 26, 2005 at 11:54 AM Harrison Ford was spotted at a Omaha Ne restaurant 8-25-05 in a white minivan with his significant other and her child. Possibly on the way to OKOBOJI????

heard it from the	horses mouth
Friday, August 26, 2005 at 1:20 PM If you think it is loud and noisy now, wait until he starts renting houseboats by the week. I am sure you will have some real nice new neighbors every week. And the noise will not stop at 1am. You had better enjoy what you have now before it all ends. It is only going to get worse.

leisa Sheridan (AKA) cody

skyylovers@aol.com

Friday, August 26, 2005 at 2:11 PM
To Lyle- I just heard what happened..The tears wont stop.I cant believe I missed your funeral, but I didnt know !!!! I will never forget Sturgis 2002 when I met you at Pag's. You took me riding every day. When we said goodbye, we talked almost every day on the phone for months.I too thought you would be around forever. How could this happen to such a great person. I wanted you to meet my son. I could kill myself for not taking you up on your several offers to come and visit. To your family-I pray that they find comfort through God and each other to ease their pain and suffering. I, like everyone else will one day meet you again in heaven, and I actually look forward to the day !! I will miss you forever.YOU ARE AWESOME, love always, Cody

I wish......	........
Friday, August 26, 2005 at 2:13 PM Makes me long for the old days when you could take two lane highway 71 into town, and see a few fishing boats out on the water, old wood cabins, and ice cream/hamburger stands, with ...(gasp) GRAVEL parking areas! There were no condos and concrete all over. I do still love the area however, and am looking forward to the last few weekends of nice weather there!

Cry some more

blah

Friday, August 26, 2005 at 6:06 PM
i see lots of words but all i can see is a bunch of people sticking their noses in someone elses businesses and cryin about it. wake up people look at your clock, its 2005, not 1967. more people, equals more housing, it happens. i bet most of you work or had jobs, most of you wouldnt have them if this wasnt a vaction hot spot. be happy YOUR ALIVE and can drive and see the lake, this lake it wont dissappear under a couple condos,if you are really for the seclusion.... theres a big state north of here full of whiners, CANADA....move .....

System Administrator

110@okoboji.com

Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 9:16 AM
Please stop posting negative things about other people. I have my own opinions just like everyone else, however as we were taught as children 'if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything at all'. Take time to look around your world, chances are you have many things to be thankful for. Count your blessings, enjoy your families and our lakes. Try to wake up and have a positive influence on our world.

vision quest

Resident

Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 12:11 PM
Harrison Ford rumors again. Please, spare me the details. Think back to last year, same time when he had to make an emergency landing here due to a faulty mechanical error. Several realtors from sp lk were telling people their own office had sold Kemna's house to Harrison Ford. Big Lie! Now, EVERYONE in the world has a double/twin; including you. You just haven't had the pleasure of meeting them yet. Why do you think they have impersonators? Harrison Ford and others are NOT, I repeat NOT in Okoboji. And for the record, Kemna's home is still Kemna's home!

Husker68410	cwatkins1@neb.rr.com
Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 1:48 PM One more week til Labor Day weekend. Can't wait to get back to Okoboji for a fun filled weekend!

To "vision quest"	ha
Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 2:50 PM What, are you Harrison Ford's P.R. person? You can repeat all you want, but ask the crew at Funtime Rentals if they think it was his impersonator who was here a month ago!

Cody

skyylovers@aol.com

Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 3:05 PM
This is a message someone gave to me on valentines day.I think it is appropriate to use in memory of Lyle. I still cant quit crying. Here it is........ "lIFE IS NOT A JOURNEY TO THE GRAVE WITH THE INTENTION OF ARRIVING SAFELY IN A PRETTY AND WELL PRESERVED BODY. BUT RATHER TO SKID IN BROADSIDE, THOROUGHLY USED UP, TOTALLY WORN OUT, AND LOUDLY PROCLAIMING - WOW - WHAT A RIDE !!! I miss you Lyle and you will always be in my thoughts. I'll see ya, just not yet baby. xo

shandon	Nakomis ,Florida
Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 3:11 PM One more message..... Love doesn't make the world go round love is what makes the ride worth while. I miss you Lyle. xxoo

Laurie

oneucantforget@lycos.com

Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 9:34 PM
I am grateful that there is a place where a person can go to post their miscellaneous items for sale for free but lately I’ve been getting these international emails from various people saying that they want to purchase my item via money order and that they have their own shipping company who will come and put up the item. Who ARE these PEOPLE??? I wish that there was something that could be done to weed these people out so that we could sell to reparative buyers only.

Me	TOO
Saturday, August 27, 2005 at 10:07 PM I have had the same thing happen since I posted something for sale on here! It sort of freaked me out! Isn't there a way for the webmaster to set up the webpage for that not to happen?

Lyle	Poem
Monday, August 29, 2005 at 1:34 AM There was a poem in one of the Lakes paper about Lyle. The person that wrote it did not know Lyle but came to the funeral anyway and later published a poem about him in one of the local papers. Has anyone seen it? and what paper did it run in?

Mrs Claus	Council Bluffs
Monday, August 29, 2005 at 11:31 AM FYI, Harrison Ford and his girlfriend were seen in Omaha at the Hollywood Diner on Abbott Dr. The local TV news stations told about this and spoke with the owner. They left behind autographs. No one knew what they were doing in this area. But this diner is close to Eppley Airfield. So it is possible they were in the lakes area???

Lyle fan	also
Monday, August 29, 2005 at 4:37 PM The Poem "Touched by Lyle" was on the Opinion page of The Dickinson County News that came out on Wed. August 17,2005

mary	lookingforward tocamping
Monday, August 29, 2005 at 4:45 PM ANYONE KNOW ARE THE CAMP GROUNDS FILLING UP FOR LABOR DAY WEEKEND YET ? PLEASE LET ME KNOW THANKS

To Lyle fan also	~
Monday, August 29, 2005 at 6:42 PM Do you still have the paper you read the poem "Touched By Lyle?" I've been trying to find it on-line but not having any luck. I would love to read it. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank You.

Great weekend!	!!!!!!!!
Monday, August 29, 2005 at 7:42 PM Let's hope that this coming Labor Day weekend is as nice as last weekend! What great beach weather! The burritos at the Burrito Hut were awesome too - check it out!

Lyle's Poem	@@@@@@@@@@@@@
Monday, August 29, 2005 at 9:37 PM The poem was in The Dickinson County News / Wednesday, August 17th

to okobojibb	sorry
Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 7:35 AM I have been to your web page,,and I am sorry,,,I do like this forum way better,,,,much more user friendly, I do think that is why there us a little more "action" here....This forum is by far my favorite!

Boji Mom	Local
Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 8:04 AM Does anyone know of a good preschool around? I am looking for something for my 2 year old. Any information would be great! Thanks

to: great weekend	*******
Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 8:07 AM where is the burrito hut at???

Burrito Hut	@Okoboji.com
Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 9:55 AM Burrito Hut is down behind Caseys General Store in Arnolds Park. In that little shopping center. They have really good burritos!!!!

muhaaa	monkey
Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 3:23 PM Oh. don't I feel like an A**...OH well. I am anonymous:)

I think	>>>
Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 5:57 PM You're BOTH wrong! Sheesh. Next subject?

Curious

Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 11:54 PM
I have been following the news posts regarding the very unfortunate fatal boating accident on West Lake. I do have one question. Given it was about a week before the 29yr old driver of the boat was found, how could they charge hime with DUI after the so much time has passed? I am very supportative of the DNR and bringing this person to justice. However, I was just curious if there was additional information that was not shared.

Curious

Lyle's poem

Tuesday, August 30, 2005 at 11:56 PM
I didn't get a chance to see the poem either. I am a writer and a friend of the Donkersloot's....Is there any way that maybe this poem could be incorporated into the Memorial DVD of Lyle's funeral, life, etc...I'm sure that Nick and all of Lyle's friends would love to read it.....hope somebody that can make this poem public again is logging on to this website some time soon....still so hard to imagine that Lyle is gone....feels like he is just on "vacation" or some thing...been looking around corners waiting for him to appear...reality is taking it's time sinking in, I guess...take it easy big guy !!

to curious	*******
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 4:50 AM I think they can charge the boat driver with intoxication based on interviews with maybe bar employees and I would say the passenger in his boat is probably stating the driver was drunk.

Gas	Prices
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 12:44 PM What are gas prices in area on and off the lake? My family is planning on coming up for the holiday weekend, but with the rising gas prices might have to cancel the trip?

Gas Prices	going, going, going
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 1:28 PM Up again! $2.85 a gallon. Up $.24 in 2 days.

Just paid	xxoo
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 1:37 PM It's $2.89 in Rochester, MN. Yikes !!

looking for	*******
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 2:46 PM Looking for a good Chinese restaurant in lakes area??? also $2.89 (2 hours south of Okoboji) for gas

How much more can we afford?	GAS!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 3:23 PM Omaha ranaging from $2.89 to $3.59

GAS	price
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 3:24 PM In Omaha, its $3.19 for ethanol. I came to work at 7:45 and it was $2.75 and by the time I left for lunch it was $3.19...thats a 44 cent jump in a few hours.

Gas	Prices
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 4:10 PM $3.20 in Wisconsin

curious	n/a
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 7:14 PM How do prices jump so fast? Does the gas that was already in their gas tanks go up in price? To me it seems like a little bit of price gouging (not sure of spelling) if they have already paid for and filled their supply tanks prior to the hurricane. Just curious.

Lyle's Poem

@@@@@@@@@@@@@@

Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 7:26 PM
TOUCHED BY LYLE. Lyle: I never knew who Lyle was, Until the day he died But I went to his funeral anyway, And I admit, I had to cry! I listened to his children tell, How Lyle loved them so! And his friend, the Pastor knew, T"was heaven where Lyle would go ! His army buddy came from the Eastern shore, He told how he & Lyle served in the U.S. Army Corp. How Lyle never shirked his duty Or wasted anytime. He knew that what he had to do, Would turn out more than fine! As a Harley Cycle rider, he had lots of friends He counted quite a few. They came to mark his passing, the east, the west, The north,the south,more than he ever knew!! 2000 people watched the video of Lyle's life, and it cut through their heartstrings, Like a big old hunting knife!! Have you ever seen an El Forester or a big Hell's Angel guy, Bow his head or shake his shoulders and break right down and cry? Well I did that day, Inside a church so fine! Everyone there was your buddy' For that sorry sorry time! They carried Lyle's casket out While his cycle sat there runnig Then as they slid it into the hearse, the bike just quit it" humming!! The piper played "Amazing Grace," As Lyle rode away. No, I"d never knew who Lyle was, But I met the guy today! In Memory Of Lyle Donkersloot. Ride On!! M. Robert (Bob) Schroder Okoboji

To curious	!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 8:00 PM there is a flip side to that statement..........When the tanks are full of that very spendy fuel & prices take a sharp drop who do you think takes the gouging??????????? In the big picture you hope it equals out!

monkey	wonder_busta@yahoo.com
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 8:25 PM Does anybody know what that website is to check out gas prices? It tells who has the highest gas in IOWA.

Gas	Prices
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 8:55 PM www.iowastategasprices.com

monkey	dog
Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 9:18 PM for all you gas complainers out there the lakes is not even on the top ten most expensive places in iowa to get gas. whoo-hoo!

Ben Wantland

dontwant@spam.com

Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 9:28 PM
So I've just been reading over this month's posts, and I have many things to say: 1) I'm going to be with a great band called Towncrier at Whiskey Dick's Friday, Saturday and Sunday. You should come out and hear some music. Preview at http://www.towncriermusic.com 2) Someone quoted a boatsafe website as giving a minimum distance in front of the boat for "going faster than 10 mph"... I think it was 200 feet. Everyone who will operate a boat should be aware that it's not that simple, it's a dynamic thing. How much faster than 10 mph? At 65 mph (which is really too fast for this lake, I'm just making an example), I'd hope you have much, much more than 200 feet clear in front of the boat, because that distance goes by very quickly. 3) As far as new laws go, what we really need are laws against stupidity, but that's too general; unfortunately, by attempting to legislate all of the aspects of stupidity individually, we would eventually wind up with very little freedom. All of us who don't listen to hardcore punk rock are intelligent enough to realize that we can not function in pure anarchy, however, none of us wants to live in a police state either. We have to draw the line somewhere in between, but where? Just something to think about... 4) With the holiday weekend looming, we need to think about keeping ourselves, and everone else, safe. With all due respect to the deceased, my father was a driver's ed teacher, and when I started driving, he told me he did not want me out late at night... Why? Not for reasons of a curfew, but because after midnight, most people on the road are drunk. It's even worse on the water, and even worse on a holiday weekend. I'm not saying it would be my fault if I got hit by a drunk, just that I (and everyone) should think and drive defensively. Remember learning that in driver's ed? I'm going to be boating this weekend, but I will not be hammered, and won't be driving too fast for the conditions or too close to anyone else, and if I'm out at night, I'll be keeping it at no-wake speed. Hopefully I'm not the only one thinking this way. Thanks for reading.

To Ben

We love ya....

Wednesday, August 31, 2005 at 10:34 PM
You are such a great writer....hahahahaha....can't wait to see you and the guys at Dicks this weekend, should be a great time....excited to see you finally bring your boat...hey don't forget to sing a little Johnny Cash for us....Peace out !!!! And to Bob who wrote the poem to Lyle....you captured a lot for not knowing the legend, just shows how Lyle's life touched others....RIP